Perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you

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I am sharing an ayah that inspired me today. I seek forgivess, guidance and help from  Allah سبحان و تعالى

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Al-Baqara (البقرة) / 2:216

وَعَسَىٰٓ أَن تَكْرَهُوا۟ شَيْـًٔا وَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَّكُمْ وَعَسَىٰٓ أَن تُحِبُّوا۟ شَيْـًٔا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ لَّكُمْ وَٱللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ

But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.

  وَعَسَى But perhaps  -  أَنْ [that]  -  تَكْرَهُوا you dislike  -  شَيْئًا a thing  -  وَهُوَ and it  -  خَيْرٌ (is) good  -  لَكُمْ for you;  -  وَعَسَى and perhaps  -  أَنْ [that]  -  تُحِبُّوا you love  -  شَيْئًا a thing  -  وَهُوَ and it  -  شَرٌّ (is)
bad  -  لَكُمْ for you.  -  وَاللَّهُ And Allah  -  يَعْلَمُ knows  -  وَأَنْتُمْ while you  -  لَا (do) not  -  تَعْلَمُونَ know.  -

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Many times it happens that I hate a thing that is happening. I hate it and get irritated and when that situation passes, I realize that was the best thing happened to me.  And many times I love certain things without realizing that they are bad for me. But why do I hate certain situations? I hate them because they take me out of my comfort zone. Basically those situations are hard on my soul and I forget that Allah Knows about my soul and I don't know anything. So it is a reminder that Allah always know and I never know. So basically situations become hateful when I start to think that the reverse situation is better for me and I forget that what Allah decided for me is better for me because Allah Knows and I don't know.